What's The Best Motivator. Pain or Love ?

Pain is a great driving force. So is Love. One comes from a point of reference. . The other comes from a clear space in the present moment. . One becomes exhausting over time. . The other one becomes creative over time. - One has great huge boundaries. . The other one simply responds to what there is. . One has limits and prevents connection. . The other one is present and connects by default. . One acts out of emotion. . The other acts out of wisdom. . One is compulsive. The other is conscious. . One is born out of thought. . The other is YOU.